Consent and Personal Boundaries
“Don’t Hug Doug (He Doesn’t Like It)” is a thoughtful and important picture book that introduces young readers to the concept of consent and personal boundaries.
Written by Carrie Finison and illustrated by Daniel Wiseman, the story follows Doug, a lovable character who simply doesn’t enjoy hugs. Instead, Doug prefers giving high-fives.
Through Doug’s journey, children (and adults reading) learn that not everyone likes the same kinds of affection, and it’s perfectly okay to set boundaries.
- Title: “Don’t Hug Doug (he doesn’t like it)“
- Authors: Carrie Finison & Daniel Wisema
- Age Group: Early years and lower primary
- Links to EYLF
- Principles: Secure, respectful and reciprocal relationships
- Outcomes: Children have a strong sense of wellbeing
Empowering Children
This book is especially timely during the holiday season when physical affection can feel overwhelming for some children.
“Don’t Hug Doug” offers a gentle but powerful lesson: it’s important to ask before giving physical affection, and it’s always okay to say “no” or to request a different form of greeting.
The book empowers children to voice their preferences and teaches respect for the feelings and boundaries of others. Fostering kindness and respect for individual choices, making it a perfect book to help kids navigate these important moments.
With its playful tone and engaging illustrations, “Don’t Hug Doug” provides a fun and approachable way for parents, caregivers and educators to start meaningful conversations with young children about personal autonomy and consent.
It’s an essential read for helping children understand that their bodies belong to them and that they have the right to feel safe and comfortable in all social situations.
